Relay compiler configuration "exclude" option is not respected

### Link to the code that reproduces this issue https://github.com/mjfaga/nextjs-relay-swc-excludes ### To Reproduce Install dependencies and build: ```shell yarn install yarn build ``` ### Current vs. Expected behavior # Current Behavior When adding a library (in the MVP, `@stigg/react-sdk`) that uses GraphQL under the hood, the relay compiler breaks consumption of that library and the app no longer properly builds. ``` ± yarn build yarn run v1.22.21 $ relay-compiler --validate && next build [INFO] Querying files to compile... [INFO] [default] compiling... [INFO] [default] compiled documents: 0 reader, 0 normalization, 0 operation text [INFO] Compilation completed. [INFO] Done. ▲ Next.js 14.2.8 Creating an optimized production build ... Failed to compile. ./node_modules/@stigg/js-client-sdk/dist/index.js Module not found: Can't resolve '/Users/markfaga/projects/nextjs-relay-swc-excludes/./__generated__/SlimSubscriptionFragmentV2.graphql.ts' https://nextjs.org/docs/messages/module-not-found Import trace for requested module: ./node_modules/@stigg/react-sdk/dist/react-sdk.esm.js ./src/app/page.tsx ``` # Expected Behavior No errors because node_modules is excluded from being targeted during relay GraphQL compilation (see below for additional context). ### Provide environment information ```bash Operating System: Platform: darwin Arch: arm64 Version: Darwin Kernel Version 23.2.0: Wed Nov 15 21:55:06 PST 2023; root:xnu-10002.61.3~2/RELEASE_ARM64_T6020 Available memory (MB): 98304 Available CPU cores: 12 Binaries: Node: 22.7.0 npm: 10.8.2 Yarn: 1.22.21 pnpm: N/A Relevant Packages: next: 14.2.8 // Latest available version is detected (14.2.8). eslint-config-next: 14.2.8 react: 18.3.1 react-dom: 18.3.1 typescript: 5.6.2 Next.js Config: output: N/A ``` ### Which area(s) are affected? (Select all that apply) Turbopack ### Which stage(s) are affected? (Select all that apply) next build (local) ### Additional context The current [SWC relay c…