Modifying `error.message` does not update `error.stack` if `stream.destroy(error)` has been called

### Version v21.1.0 ### Platform Linux ether-laptop 6.5.0-15-generic #15-Ubuntu SMP PREEMPT_DYNAMIC Tue Jan 9 17:03:36 UTC 2024 x86_64 x86_64 x86_64 GNU/Linux ### Subsystem _No response_ ### What steps will reproduce the bug? ```js import {Writable} from 'node:stream' const error = new Error('This failed') const stream = new Writable() stream.destroy(error) stream.on('error', () => {}) error.message = `Additional info: ${error.message}` // This does not print 'Additional info', but should console.log(error) // Error: This failed // at file:///... // ... ``` ### How often does it reproduce? Is there a required condition? No. ### What is the expected behavior? Why is that the expected behavior? Printed error should show "Additional info". ### What do you see instead? Printed error does not show "Additional info". ### Additional information This is due to #34103, specifically [this](https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34103#issuecomment-652002364): > Always stringify error.stack, because the small performance penalty that comes with it is worth the reduced risk of memory leaks. (I’ve confirmed that this also fixes the test with the patch below.) As implemented in: https://github.com/nodejs/node/blob/8a41d9b636be86350cd32847c3f89d327c4f6ff7/lib/internal/streams/destroy.js#L35 If `error.message` is modified later on (e.g. due to prepending some additional information), the change won't be reflected with `error.stack`. This is unfortunate because `error.stack` is used by `util.inspect()`, which is itself used by `console.log()`.