quic: buffer stalls, as maxdata updates do not triggern an update of writeDesired sizes

ngtcp2 has no callback to inform us about an arrived maxdata frame. If the buffering is only external and not within ngtcp2, this can cause a stall. The equivalent for maxstreamdata is already addressed in https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/64768 , as here ngtcp2 provides a callback. Here is a reproduction code, based on the test of @pimterry for the PR of maxstreamdata: ``` // Flags: --experimental-quic --experimental-stream-iter --no-warnings // Test: Quic maxdata updates on http/3 // Client sends a body that precisely fills the session window size, // and verifies that it is data transfer is not stalled. import { hasQuic, skip } from '../common/index.mjs'; import { readFile } from 'node:fs/promises'; import { setTimeout as sleep } from 'node:timers/promises'; if (!hasQuic) { skip('QUIC is not enabled'); } const { listen, connect } = await import('node:quic'); const { createPrivateKey } = await import('node:crypto'); const { drainableProtocol } = await import('stream/iter'); const keys = 'test/fixtures/keys'; const key = createPrivateKey(await readFile(`${keys}/agent1-key.pem`)); const cert = await readFile(`${keys}/agent1-cert.pem`); const WINDOW = 4096; // Fills the window exactly: // considers all framing including some initial session capsules const BODY = WINDOW - 38; let letServerRead; const serverMayRead = new Promise((resolve) => { letServerRead = resolve; }); const endpoint = await listen((session) => { session.onstream = async (stream) => { await serverMayRead; // eslint-disable-next-line no-unused-vars for await (const _ of stream) { /* reading extends the window */ } }; }, { sni: { '*': { keys: [key], certs: [cert] } }, transportParams: { initialMaxStreamDataBidiRemote: 1024 * 1024, // make sure maxstreamdata does not block initialMaxData: WINDOW, }, onheaders() { this.sendHeaders({ ':status': '200' }); }, }); const session = await connect(endpoint.address, { servername: 'localhost', verifyPeer: 'manual', }); a…