Megatron fused CUDA kernels to improve Hugging Face model classes' scalability

# 🚀 Feature request Support for custom fused CUDA kernels with HF model classes. ## Motivation It appears that Hugging Face model classes do not scale very well as-is unlike Megatron-LM, even when the latter is configured with a degree of model-parallelization = 1 for a "fair" performance comparison. One of the presumed reasons for this is that Megatron-LM leverages custom fused CUDA kernels written by NVIDIA, specifically [these](https://github.com/NVIDIA/Megatron-LM/blob/aed2f75e209e525c842aec7c044af7acae2a4614/megatron/model/transformer.py#L26L27). Could we get variants of existing HF classes (perhaps for `GPT2Model`, `GPT2LMHeadModel`, etc.) such that the variants leverage some/all of these fused CUDA kernels? All this while still ensuring that one can load the original pre-trained weights into these variant classes. Any guidance/low-level thoughts towards making this happen would also be greatly useful! @thomwolf @patrickvonplaten @LysandreJik @stas00