optimize numa behavior for large models with GPU and CPU inference - numa_balancing on GPU causes excessively slow load times

### What is the issue? My setup is a 4x A100 80GB, 2TB ram, dual intel cpu. Ubuntu server 22.04. On a previous version of ollama, the model llama3.1:405b was loaded in a reasonable amount of seconds, with latest version this is not the case anymore. After issuing the command ollama run llama3.1:405b it just remain with the rotating cursor. ### OS Linux ### GPU Nvidia ### CPU Intel ### Ollama version 0.3.6