🚀 Enhancement: Make create/update email/push/sms endpoints consistent

### 🔖 Enhancement description All the APIs should have the same order of parameters. For example, the create email endpoint: https://github.com/appwrite/appwrite/blob/f0ee1926bee2768e0a284ae07d5b3f41aa4d2c31/app/controllers/api/messaging.php#L2587-L2598 vs update email: https://github.com/appwrite/appwrite/blob/f0ee1926bee2768e0a284ae07d5b3f41aa4d2c31/app/controllers/api/messaging.php#L3262-L3272 ### 🎤 Pitch Having the same order will make the code more consistent and reduce confusion when calling create vs update. > It could be confusing params are out of order with the create methods, not just attachments. Let's add a task to make all the param orders consistent in the next minor verison _Originally posted by @abnegate in https://github.com/appwrite/appwrite/pull/7885#discussion_r1550760830_ ### 👀 Have you spent some time to check if this issue has been raised before? - [X] I checked and didn't find similar issue ### 🏢 Have you read the Code of Conduct? - [X] I have read the [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/appwrite/.github/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)